it sucks

Why is it that in our society it seems that no one can keep the sanctity of marriage alive? While I know I’ve never been married, never won an Oscar, never been a house-hold name, I also know exactly what Sandra Bullock is going through. Here is my advice to her-
Look girl, you are GORGEOUS, and I have been obsessed with you since you were in Miss Congeniality and I was like 8? Since then I have watched many of your movies like 2 weeks notice, the lake house, the proposal, and of course the blind side.
You and I both made the same stupid mistake- oh let’s get involved with this sexy bad boy who is really beneath us but has tattoos and kids and seems like a great person to trust our hearts with. BIG MISTAKE, right?
Both of us thought we could change him, or that he had already changed, but the reason why they are “bad boys” is because they are BAD FOR US. I’m sorry you had to have this whole scandal blow up in the media when you should be celebrating your ACADEMY AWARD but shit happens and I hope you learn from it like I had to.
Anyway, Sandy, I love you and I know you will be better from this in the long run. Just like me.